You are at the point of ultimate excitement. After all the nonsense you have been through in your past relationships, remember the crazy girlfriend, the stalker girlfriend, the multiple one night stands, the one that got away, and finally the one that we might call the “hooker”. (If you’ve forgot how bad your ex-girlfriends were, read “The 9 Worst Ex-Girlfriends“).
The thought in your mind that you have finally found your prized piece—the infamous good girl—triggers this ultimate excitement.
The good girl is also better known as the girl you have been waiting for, the one you can take home to your mother, and the woman that genuinely makes you feel a certain indescribable feeling.
Wait, not so fast there buddy! Yes, she initially might have all the primary signs of being a good girl and you are probably eager to get this exciting show on the road. But, before you embark on that journey, take note of our 5 signs to help you evaluate and guarantee that you have a keeper.
5. There is no bad press attached to her name
Time and time again, we come across women who we immediately think are amazing. However, once we go back to our friend circles and mention her name, the first thing you hear is utter laughter. There is nothing worse than a “homey hooper,” or the girl with bad press (people know her fictional and non-fictional history.)
You know you have found a good girl whenever you mention her name and no one responds with negative comments. A girl without any bad press can mean she’s not out much or she does not participate in frowned-upon behavior (i.e. abusing drugs, having multiple partners, etc).
Always take the time to cross check her press with different groups of friends in order to make sure everyone retells the same story about her.
4. She gets along incredibly well with your family and friends
This sign is quite the money-ball. Most women who do not live up to be the true keepers or good girls will usually hate all your best friends, and try to drag you away from them as often as possible. We have personally seen one girl turn her boyfriend’s best friend against him with her fictitious rumors. Yes indeed, we live in a cold cold world. The good girl demonstrates the family and friend quality whenever everyone has a good time and enjoys her company. If she loves your friends and enjoys hanging out with them, then she is good to go.
Another big aspect involves the family. If she is able to get along with your family and voluntarily attends family functions, then you should not have any issues with her.
This proves crucial, because your siblings and parents must like her as well. But, if she fails to get along with your family, then there lies some friction ahead for the relationship.
3. The care factor
Every girl possesses a soft side, and a girl’s caring quality deeply touches men. On the other hand, a relationship that lacks this soft side might just be based around sex. The good girl should have an extreme level of care for you and continually remind you that she’s there for you. This girl will bring you soup when you’re sick, or pleasure you to the point of forgetting you had a rough day at work. She cooks your favorite meal for you and makes sure your shirt is fresh and ironed for the next day. Basically, you can trust in her care.
2. You guys get along great
The synergy between you two should be utterly amazing. You would want to always hang out with her; during the day, every thought that pops up in your head revolves around you wondering if you’ll see her again tonight. You can imagine staying in bed with her all day long and even cuddling with her after sex.
We must admit that it’s close to impossible to cuddle afterwards, but whenever it does occur then you know you have found something special. In addition, the two of you should be able to talk about anything; she understands your jokes and you understand her humor. Overall, having good energy is extremely important, because it will always remind you that you’ve got yourself a good girl.
1. Sex
At this point, the situation gets a bit tricky. You know you have found a good girl if she is holding out on spreading her lovely legs. We can estimate that the average time for a good girl to hold out on giving you any type of sex is about a month to two months. However, if you see her waiting it out, you should interpret that as her really liking you and that a “one night stand” does not exist in her vocabulary.
At Elite, we like to call the good girl the hidden gem, because in our time it is extremely hard to even come close to locating a respectable female. Nonetheless, if you do succeed in pinpointing these aforementioned qualities in her, then make sure to keep her since good girls do not come as often these days.
Remember gentlemen, it is all about quality and not quantity.
“You can lose the moon trying to count the stars”
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