The Art of Eating the Box

Put all preconceived notions aside, because we cannot stress enough how important foreplay is in the bedroom. Any man who claims that he “does not do that kind of thing” is not a real man. All women need to feel comfortable, desired and spoiled. Therefore, we mandate that you exert these techniques on ONLY the Good Girls. God forbid you catch something on your lip…or worse.

Before anything begins, we want to first suggest properly setting up the atmosphere. No, we are not talking about lighting candles or playing some R Kelly. Rather, one should make sure their woman is relaxed, comfortable, and in the mood for what you are about to lay down.

Some girls may claim that they “do not like it,” but clearly women have dealt with at least one man who knows what he is doing.

Work your way down.

The psychology of the situation trumps all other physical aspects when approaching the domain of foreplay. In order to break down this mental barrier, we recommend you begin with a series of kisses and work your way downward. Be sure to Kiss Them Where It Counts, and take your time to get her into a frenzy before engaging in the main event.  Once you focus on these key areas, her arousal levels will only climb to new heights once you get into it.

Whether you are the aggressive and playful biter or one of the slow romantic types, you must not neglect the pre-foreplay agenda. The goal of this agenda is to make sure she begs for what you are about to give her.

The Technique

With the main event upon us, we recommend taking your time and initially focusing on the outer areas aside from the clitoris. The clitoris, or the sweet spot, requires you to start work along the edges for a few moments; this creates a build-up and will only intensify her pleasure once you hit the bulls eye. Pressure should be moderate, and we suggest you perform long strides with both the top and underside of your tongue.

The Main Event

Now, it is time to get down to the sweet spot. At this point, her back should be arched, eyes rolling back, and her finger nails should be digging into your arms. If you do not know where her clitoris is located by now, then we must ask you to log off our website…Seriously. There are just two basic moves we all need to know. For the counterclockwise roll, place attention on the sweet spot by rotating the tip of your tongue in a counter-clockwise motion around the clitoris. As you progress, invert between the counterclockwise roll and incorporate long, deliberate strides with the top of your tongue.

The key to the long strides lies in the amount of pressure exerted onto the sweet spot. To apply the right amount of  pressure, you should support your tongue with your bottom front teeth.  Now, this will feel quite  uncomfortable, and may even leave you walking away with a lisp. Nonetheless, all the pain is worth her pleasure.

Control The Show

There will come a point sometime after her second or third orgasm where she may feel like her body cannot take anymore pleasure. She will clutch your hair, curse at you in foreign languages, and eventually yell out “God” so many times that you will wonder if you were sitting through Sunday mass.

This is the most crucial moment of the whole exercise… Men, DO NOT STOP! At this moment, you have the leverage to pull an encore. Recall Mick Jagger at Madison Square, think of when the crowd thought it took in all it could physically handle, then he steps back out onto the stage only to break the crowd down with the experience of a lifetime. Give her that same unforgettable rouse by using the same techniques aforementioned, and make sure you leave her knees weak and shaking in despair.

Do not worry gentlemen, foreplay will take practice; it is not something perfected over night. However, the right guidance, such as the one we have just presented, could make you the last man she ever needs. Most importantly, do make sure your partner is comfortable with everything. Do not force the situation upon her, and certainly do not fake the technique. Communication is an important aspect of great sex that many people often neglect.

Ultimately, your pleasure will derive from her pleasure; the rewards are limitless once all measures are properly executed. Be a man. Stay elite.

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