Things You Should Never Do For a Lover

We have all fallen in love at least once in our lives. The urge to nurture and provide support for your loved one is only natural. Why should you not spend a little money to make your lover happy? Nothing wrong with that action, right? Wrong. Sadly, we have experienced a few instances that have tipped the scales against us with our relationship with Miss Right.

Here are some of the things that you should never dare to do for the person you love:

Acquire their expenses

We all enjoy splurging money here and there, especially on expensive gifts and lavish dinners at the finest of culinary hot spots. We do not oppose spending money on her, but you might want to be careful on exactly what you spend on her. Once you start to pick up her rent costs, phone bills, and all other living expenses, then you will begin to feel more like her father rather than her lover. This type of spending can drastically change the mood of the relationship, because relationships should be mutual partnerships as opposed to a financial obligation.

When one starts to pick up the other’s sack, a certain level of indebtedness interrupts the relationship. One may momentarily experience a rough patch in their professional career, but no one likes a complete moocher or deadbeat. If they are too quick to push the bills your way without any gratitude, then you may be harvesting a gold digger. Surely, you may only think its only $10,000 a month, but it will increase and she could acquire half your net worth through a divorce.

Move In

Moving in together definitely has its benefits, but you must also realize that you are putting yourself in a position to spend your time with the last person you will ever date. On the other hand, the change of pace can serve as testing waters for a great future together, but the move-in can become the worst decision you ever made. Unless you can realistically see yourself having kids together, do not jump the gun and marry off your social independence.

Meet an ex

We have heard all of the excuses before, “We’ve been best friends since we were 5″, “he’s like a brother to me”, “he has a girlfriend” or “he’s married.” This point does not dwell on jealousy, but encourages you to always play it safely. So, do not set yourself up to play the fool; if your lover and her friend have had sex before then they may just repeat the act again. Surely, you do not want to be the blind man that allows cheaters to intrude on his perfectly happy world. Take the time to prevent any heartaches.

Take her back a second time

It’s pretty simple: never take back a cheater! Take relationship and girl woes as necessary lessons, but the important part is to catalog these mishaps into your personal book of knowledge. Great sex can become even more blinding than illicit drugs; don’t let your emotions make all of your decision because you’ll soon fall into real danger. We are lovers not fighters, and we have already found ourselves caught doing all of the above. Therefore, we want to impart some honest warnings to our fellow Elite members on overplaying your love and affection.

Never share the puppy

The puppy is the one thing we know that we will love indefinitely. You might have initially wanted the new Shih Tzu more than the new babe. After a long day of meetings, you only think about your little pal as your travel back home. So, on the first day, please make it very clear that you are the sole owner and there will be no discussion about joint custody.We hate to be cold, but we have to firmly draw the line here.

Share Passwords

We highly recommend that you do not give up your passwords unless password sharing becomes a deal breaker for the relationship. No, we do want to hide anything, and our honesty should validate this claim. We just know that once we give up all of the privacy measures then we are also opening up a pandora’s box. We deem it important that you keep some measure of self-restraint for the sake of your mental health. Everyone needs their private space; transparency is only mandatory when you’re married, not a second before.

Share Friends

Of course, we love a woman who gets along seamlessly with our friends, but please refrain from letting her get too close to your friends. We simply want you to avoid having to see a future ex reappear in your same social circles. For one, her constant appearances will not help for the separation phrase, and it will only hurt to see her with other guys. More importantly, do not expect to see her with strangers, because more than likely her new beaus will be your own friends. So, we propose you avoid this annoyance by making sure that she does not have to go out with your social circle every night.

Elite.