Give Her What She Wants On Valentine's Day

This year’s Valentine’s Day, give her what she really wants. By now she is going to be anticipating that you bestow upon her some clichéd assortment of gifts, like the traditional roses and chocolate. This year, spice things up and put a little sentiment into your gift.

Yes, women love to receive roses, but most would prefer to receive a flower that’s actually reflective of her personal preferences. Be attentive to her desires and take notice of her favorite items.

Look, guys—you do not want to be predictable and purchase chocolate each Valentine’s day. Almost everyone certainly would love to indulge in some decadent truffles, but venture beyond the average gift. Your lady should be Elite, too. Perhaps you could consider a different choice like macaroons from Laduree or Magnolia Bakery’s amazing banana bread pudding.

She is hoping for spontaneity, thoughtfulness, and creativity—not repetitiveness. Women care more about the time, consideration, and thought put into Valentine’s Day than the gifts men fixate on.

Another possibility she would certainly enjoy is a visit to a luxurious spa or a massage. Almost every woman would love a lengthy day of pampering and relaxation. Whatever choice you pursue, make sure that it is evident that you love and adore her. Stop getting her the same Tiffany’s necklace every year and think outside the little blue box.

It’s certainly true that every girl loves Tiffany’s, but it’s also true that every girl HAS Tiffany’s. Get her a ring or bracelet she can wear without spotting it on her best friend as well. Do not let her down on Valentine’s Day; she will have extremely high expectations due to the glorified romanticism of Hollywood.

Lace, pearls and diamonds… Yes, she would love to receive lingerie, but you can take your gift beyond that to make her absolutely adore it. Something you may not have considered that she will also love is jewelry. Hmm… Now how can we combine the two? Maybe treat her, and yourself–let’s be honest, to lingerie from La Perla or Agent Provocateur. One can NEVER disappoint with these choices. Trust me.

Love letters, poems, or sweet cards are some things that every woman desires. Unless she’s highly materialistic—a clear sign that she needs to go—these sentimental gift choices will be more valued than any luxurious purchase one can make.

After you’ve made your gift choice, we must focus on dinner. Ensure that you select a restaurant with the perfect ambiance in which you two can indulge in each other’s presence and share a wonderful Valentine’s Day experience. Keep in mind her meal preferences and surprise her by making reservations at one of her favorite restaurants. This will not only show that you love her, but that you also truly listen to her and take her into consideration with your planning.

Amy Nicole Marietta | Elite.