How To Make Sure She is Worth Keeping

We’ve all been faced with the purgatory phase of a relationship–entranced in a lingering commitment and relatively unsure if the tribulations you are forced to endure is worth it at all. Complacency and comfort can be detrimental to a man in any aspect of his life, but when it’s at home these distractions can transcend into every aspect of your life.

As the Elite, we have been labeled as too picky, but we believe that one should never have to compromise their tastes, aspirations or requirements for another. How do you know if the relationship is worth working for or if you’ve just become complacent with the sex? Here are a few aspects you must be cognizant of. Based on our scale, choose a number that best applies to your beau from each section and count your score at the end.

Sex Life

(1: Terrible, permissive sex – 5: Frequent, earth shattering sex)

This is the most confusing aspect of the relationship. Having sex with your partner unleashes a compendium of emotional reactions that one may not be able to properly comprehend at all times. Are you having unprotected sex? We have found it very common to feel a greater sense of emotional and physical attachment to your partner if contraceptives are out of the question. This can be attributed to the realization that you are playing for keeps with this woman and the chances of pregnancy are approaching inevitable. We all know the only safe sex is anal, duh.

Of course, we all know the honeymoon period in a relationship can waver at any time, and likely will sooner than you think, but there are some clear cut signs that you can catch fairly early on in the relationship to determine whether the sex will last. Is she a giver or a taker? Is she more inclined to satisfy you at all costs or has she consistently left you in the cold? The signs are there early on, dear Elite. If she withholds sex from you to get her way, rid yourself of this manipulative coed. This is the strategy of a grade-A hooker. We classify thewithholding of sex as cruel and unusual punishment. You must let her go.

Social Freedoms

(1: Robocop – 5: Carefree)

In a perfect world, we would be able to live off the energy of love alone. Unfortunately, love alone does not pay for your 6-figure penthouse or first class itineraries to Sardinia. It is because of this that your partner must understand the importance of being able to conduct social business with clients. No one wants an uptight prude awaiting their arrival after a night out. True love and commitment will enable both individuals to completely share all aspects of their lives including social and professional aspirations.

If your lover can’t understand the importance of showing your clients a good time at brunch and being able to socialize with members of the opposite sex, how can she expect to reap the benefits of closing a 7 figure deal. Now, we are not advocating for men to go out to their nearest Scores strip club, but if the relationship is real men will have no problem avoiding temptation. The ability to have freedom and trust is of the utmost importance and will absolutely determine the longevity of the relationship.

Possessiveness

(1: You’re not allowed to hang out with Robert or go to the massage parlor – 5: Does not care)

If a woman is unjustifiably threatened and is prone to extreme jealousy and possessiveness then you may just have a crazy one on your hands. It is perfectly normal for people to admit their self-consciousness, but that’s where it should end. It’s one thing to be open to compromise, but if it gets to the point where she picks and chooses your friends and the destinations you are allowed to go, you just might have yourself a serious issue.

Public Appeal

(1: Lindsey Lohan – 5: Kate Middleton)

The Elite all know how important it is to be with someone who compliments you both physically and socially. The team at Elite recognizes the importance of building power couples. How is your partner’s fashion sense? Are they highly articulate? Are they adaptive in diverse social settings? Are they culturally knowledgeable? Some might tag us as being a little too picky, but, on the contrary, we feel as though we could not be picky enough! This factor may prove to be of the utmost importance.

Pedigree

(1: Kim Kardashian – 5: Princess Charlene of Monaco)

If it is a long-term relationship you are seeking, then one must carefully consider their partner’s educational and familial background. Does your partner come from a strong family or educational background that will prove beneficial in the long run? If some of you Elite are considering a future where your background will be scrutinized, such as politics, then you must certainly keep this in mind.

Long Term Aspirations

(1: Rhianna – 5: Ivanka Trump)

Do you and your partner share parallel goals? If your partner is less driven than you then it will surely cause discord in the accomplishment of goals and aspirations that you may have. A long-term partner must be someone that will help you to excel in all facets of life. From family to business the outlook may have not always been shared, but both partners must be willing to meet a beneficial compromise.

Domestic Capabilities

(1: Incapable & high maintenance 5: Domesticated goddess)

Some of the most basic traits of a successful relationship are easily recognizable in one’s own home. If your lover isn’t even driven enough to keep their possessions orderly then how can you expect them to be driven to keep working at your relationship? Keep in mind that this goes for both sides, as the traditional roles of household maintenance are no longer just a woman’s responsibility. Can your partner cook and clean? Is she willing to learn? This will enable you to recognize whether or not children with her will be the right fit.

Elite, I hope you’ve been able to take everything into careful consideration. No longer do you have to speculate whether or not this relationship is worth it, but now you have a clear mathematical formula. If you’ve scored less then a 27 then you just may want to reconsider this relationship. Don’t worry, there are plenty of other fish out in the sea. Relationships and sex are merely a byproduct of chasing your dreams. Never settle for less than what you demand.

Elite.