Is She Into You ?

The gift of deciphering and decoding of the symbols of the female counterpart has never been simple to acquire, nonetheless utilize. How can one ensure that she wants you to escort her into her home or say provide a gentlemanly goodnight at the front door? The answer is learning through experiences, and we just so happen to be quite familiar with these experiences.

There is nothing worse than misinterpreting a signal. You’ll either make the move when she is not into you and come off as a bumbling idiot or fail to make the move when she’s wrapped around your fingers. Gentlemen, here are a couple tips to know where you stand.

Physical Contact

A single touch can speak 1000 words. If she is comfortable enough with you then something as simple as a touch on your forearm mid-conversation lets you know that she likes you. If she’s constantly brushing her knee against yours, it’s pretty evident she likes you. If she puts her foot on your crotch underneath the table… Yes, gentlemen, she really likes you. It is important to remain aware that not all contact will be this obvious. Subtleties like that nonexistent crumb on your Thomas Pink shirt that she reaches over to brush off are a clear sign of her initiating physical contact and craving reciprocation.

She’s Down

If you ever bring up your favorite restaurant, hobby, or bar, and she is curious as to when you guys can go, then this is another sign. She may not internally be as excited as her facial expression, but she wants to go because she’d be spending time with you. Our advice is bring up something exhilarating that you have yet to partake in so you have a companion to share the experience with.

Digital Communication

It is at times almost easier to tell whether she’s into you or not over the internet. Whether its through emails, IMs, Facebook, etc., the signs are still able to be decoded. An indicator of her attraction to you can be through a series of personal questions ranging from what you ate for dinner last night to what your favorite sexual position is. Other indicators are the extra exclamation points, the flirtatious tone, and the quickness of her responses back to your messages.

Wife-Like Traits

If the motherly characteristics begin coming out around you, she is most likely attracted to you on a much more sexual level. Take note of the loose button that she offers to sew or the homemade dish that she brings over for you. These nurturing characteristics show that she wants to cater to you in more ways than one.

Teasing

Not much has changed since the days of our youth when it could be inferred that two people liked each other by them always teasing one another. If she likes to lightly critique your outfit or your taste in music then don’t take it to heart. She’s just trying to get under your skin. Provide a witty retort right back to her, but keep it fun and flirtatious.

Faking It Until She Makes It

When did she like sitting down watching Sportscenter with you for hours on end? Well, she definitely does not enjoy the Sportscenter, but she does like spending time with you. Your hobbies may not be in her best interest, but the fact that you guys spend time together is what matters. Open your eyes up and notice this because she can only watch so many Top 10 highlights before she takes a walk.

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